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Ask Bernie for a personal tour of the Playful Path. Rediscover your playfulness. Explore your innate ability to be "playful, even though," with anything: job, marriage, prayer, meditation, parenting, learning, acting, leading, serving, selling, writing, making shoes and love and even games, even the daily one. As Bernie says:

 

Health and Playfulness

Playfulness is one of the signs scientists look for when trying to determine the health of a herd of animals. The healthier the animals and the safer the herd, the more they play.

The same is true of the human herd. Especially herds of children. As long as the kids are healthy and feeling safe, left to their own resources, play is the thing they do.

Adults of the herd play less, at least observably, because for the most part they are not as healthy and definitely not as safe as they were when they were children. And when they are being playful, they tend to feel healthier, safer, almost like they did when they were kids, and maybe even better. Simply by playing, they reclaim their health, their community, their well-being, the energy of their youth.

Adult human beings are different than the adults of any other species I can think of, in that they can choose to be playful, even when they don't feel safe or particularly good.

 

 

The Playful Path - finding fun in the daily game

During the course of their working lives, most people lose touch with the sources of their personal power. Through guided self-study that taps deeply into the energies of enjoyment, my Journeys on the Playful Path open new channels for bringing more success and satisfaction to our daily lives.

So this is what I learned

  • enjoyment is fundamental to happiness
  • people can make things more enjoyable

And this is what I discovered:

There's a direct connection between the experiences of alienation and stress, and the amount of enjoyment people were having - that the more alienated and stressed people were, the less fun.

And I know how people can make anything more enjoyable - their jobs, their relationships, the things they make and do.

That's it. That's all you need to know. As long as you are playing, as long as you are fully playing, and playing playfully, the Playful Path is more likely than not to be the path you're on. And as long as you stay on the Playful Path, you make even the daily game more fun.

That's the thing about the Playful Path. As soon as you stop playing, or stop playing fully, or stop playing playfully, suddenly you're somewhere else, on some other kind of path, a path that is most definitely not a playful one and ultimately not particularly fun.

Whoever chooses to respond playfully, most often and most...um...playfully can be said to be a "traveler on the Playful Path." Someone making, having and being fun.

What is odd, especially to those of us who have, from time to time, walked that very same Playful Path to which I herein allude, is that people would choose any other way to experience the world. Why would you not want to follow the Playful Path? What other path is better designed to take you to happiness? What more reliable guide to happiness than fun and creativity, spontaneity and responsiveness, laughter and silliness?

Traveling the Playful Path is a kind of whole person, whole community, whole society, whole world yoga with games and exercises and studies and arts that help you create a daily game that is more fun for you and the world.

So, listen, if you know anyone who is making people too stressed to play, too tightly-wound for fun, tell them about all this, will you? About the Playful Path and how delightfully healing it is to follow. And tell them I can give them guided tours of the Playful Path, in workshops, programs, classes, retreats, seminars, sessions, lectures, keynotes. Mostly with games. My kind of games.

And that as they play, they will re-discover their own Playful Path, and be reminded of how it can bring a new level of vitality to themselves and each other, to their significant others and all they signify, to those they care for and care for them. Playing playfully, I reconnect them to:

  • the art and science of enjoyment
  • how they can make things more enjoyable for themselves, and everyone around them

Also, please explain that my Journeys tend to cover a lot of territory, including brief, but spectacular visits to one or several combinations of some of my favorite sites:

The Theater of Games

Play Pointless Games, in depth, for the fun of it. Pointless Games are games that are literally pointless. No score. No particular goal other than to have fun. Which, of course, turns out to be very point worthy, in deed.

The FUN Community

Discover how creating a FUN Community helps:

  • extend your playfulness and
  • celebrate those who bring FUN to your life

The Well-Played Game

Explore the experiences of CoLiberation and its impact on the FUN community. Learn how to extend the gift of FUN to your:

  • selves
  • friends
  • family
  • community of healers

Recess for the Soul

Create your own private, personal, imaginary playground. Learn how you can find delight in all the various aspects of your personality. Explore and expand your consciousness while exercising your playfulness and imagination.

 

 

 

 

 

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