Relearning play

"I know that there is a real need for people who were not played with as infants to relearn interactive play - which is essential for successful adult relationship, both causal (with people who are basically strangers and will remain so) and people with whom you are in committed relationships: spouses, grown children siblings. Playfulness is important in successful conflict resolution as well as for shared fun and joy. Lots of people suffer in their relationships because they are so serious all the time. The ability to playfully interact can save your life in a serious emergency setting like a hospital - keeping people attuned to you and you attuned to life."

Dr. Jeanne Segal